Wedding Cake Design

Summary:

• Roommate Ate Wedding Cake Worth $1000

  • OP's roommate ate a cake meant for a wedding, valued at $1000, leading to the necessity of remaking it. Despite the roommate's eating disorder, OP is seeking full compensation for the loss.

• Roommate demanding a $700 wedding cake for free

  • OP's roommate, who previously destroyed the $1000 cake, asked for a discounted or free $700 cake for her own wedding. OP's decision to charge the full amount has led to a dispute.

• Additional Comments

  • Positive Reactions to Cake
    • Comments admiring the cake design, colors, and execution, with praise for the flowers and overall "Sunshine" and "Joy" it brought.
  • Empathy for OP's Situation
    • Understanding OP's frustration and stress over the situation, with encouragement and support for their decision.
  • Personal Experiences Shared
    • Some users shared their own experiences related to eating disorders, ADHD, and anxiety, offering insights and advice from their perspectives.

Pros and Cons:

Pros:

• Fair Compensation: Seeking full compensation for the destroyed cake, as per its market value.
• Upholding Boundaries: Not allowing the roommate's behavior to go without consequences.
• Supportive Comments: Positive feedback on the design and execution of the cake.

Cons:

• Potential Strain on Relationship: Charging the full amount may lead to resentment from the roommate.
• Mental Health Consideration: Balancing the issue with the roommate's eating disorder, considering her condition.
• Stress and Anxiety: OP's mental health issues amplifying the challenges in dealing with the situation.