Summary:

Situation with Boyfriend's Friends:

• Issue: Boyfriend's friends created a fake Tinder account, made degrading comments about OP, and demanded proof of her identity over FaceTime.
• Consensus: OP is not the AH; the friends are wrong and disrespectful.
• Advice:
  • OP should stand her ground and expect an Apology.
  • Some suggest setting Boundaries and considering the future of the Relationship.
  • Boyfriend should prioritize OP's feelings and ensure his friends apologize.

Boyfriend's Behavior:

• Concern:
  • Reddit is critical of the boyfriend for not standing up for OP and expects him to support and defend OP.
  • The situation reflects poorly on the boyfriend and raises red flags.

Family Support:

• Money Issues:
  • OP's father's response to her financial need led to feelings of neglect and worthlessness.
  • Parents' or family's Financial support is questioned when needed.
• Emotional support:
  • Emotional and abusive history within families is noted, highlighting the importance of healthy family dynamics.

Past Abusive Relationship:

• Abusive Ex-husband:
  • Ex-husband was abusive, addicted, and made plans endangering OP's life during her pregnancy.
  • Minimal Consequences for Ex-husband's actions were seen as problematic and worrying.

Overall Suggestions:

• Empathy and Boundaries:
  • Setting and enforcing Boundaries is crucial in Relationships, and empathy should be shown towards those facing abusive or disrespectful situations.
• Red Flags:
  • Recognizing red flags, standing firm in one's beliefs, and seeking support are highlighted in dealing with problematic Relationships or situations.