Christmas T-Shirt Dilemma Summary

Summary of Reddit Comments

Family Event Dress Code

• The original poster (OP) requested family members to wear nice outfits for a Christmas photo.
• The dress code was casual but nice, not extreme or inappropriate.
• Other family members followed the dress code request except for Sam.
• Sam dressed provocatively and in a way that went against the dress code request.

Opinion on OP's Actions

• YTA Perspective:
  • Some users see OP as the AH for excluding Sam from the main family photo.
  • They believe OP shouldn't enforce a strict dress code for a family photo and should allow individual expression.
• NTA Perspective:
  • Others feel OP is not the AH because they set a simple dress code for a specific photo.
  • They think it was reasonable for OP to make a dress code request for a family event.
  • Sam's intention to push boundaries and provoke a reaction was noted and perceived negatively.

Handling the Situation

• Suggestions were made that OP could have handled it differently, like allowing the unconventional outfit for the photo.
• Some users highlighted Sam's intention to elicit a reaction and the appropriateness of excluding them.

Overall Consensus

• The consensus was divided, with some condemning OP's exclusion of Sam and others supporting OP's decision based on the context and dress code request.