Summary

Inaccurate Situation:

- A situation was described in which a person's partner would become scared in shallow water at the beach and demand to be carried by them, putting strain on relations. Witnesses as well as the OP himself doubted the validity of the partner's fear, suggesting it could be for attention.

Responses:

• NTA (Not The Asshole)

  • Many commenters sided with the OP, considering the partner's behavior as attention-seeking and unreasonable. They believed the partner's fear was exaggerated or fabricated.
  • Some suggested setting boundaries and reconsidering the relationship given the partner's behavior.

• Concerns Raised:

  • Concerns were expressed about the partner's maturity level and motives.
  • Doubt was cast on the partner's genuine fear of water due to inconsistent behaviors and actions.
  • Suggestions were made for the OP to prioritize self-respect and set limits in the relationship.